We wanted to let you all know about our Time to remember (or Blue Christmas) service on Friday 2nd December at 7pm in Bellshill Central Parish Church. The service is in conjunction with Potts Funeral Directors and is ecumenical with partners from both Church of Scotland and our Roman Catholic Church friends in Bellshill.
This is a service for all those who find the Christmas season a painful time. It may be a loved one has died, or a loss of a meaningful relationship, marriage, job, security or a sense of direction.
The service will be a gathering for remembering and reflecting, using readings, music and an opportunity to light a candle.
Afterwards refreshments will be available in the Church Hall for those wishing to stay behind to speak with clergy present or others who have come along to remember a loved one.
Please can you share this with your local church community, and via any of your social media platforms. If you can include this in any orders of service etc that would be greatly appreciated
Any names for inclusion can be emailed to ttr@Bellshillcentral.church
Gather us into Your presence, God of peace. We trust that Your vision for the world – the great creation of Your imagination, entrusted to us as a place for our flourishing – is still there behind all the challenges of our lives. We come today remembering that even in the darkest of days, Your flame of hope and new life flickers drawing us on to find the good and to illuminate the world with Your Gospel of love.
Help us to find You in the smallest of things and the most ordinary of our experiences. For You are the great source of our being and the power that sustains us through Your Holy Spirit. When we search hard for You, we may miss Your presence in the everyday – so, help us to look out for You – in the face of friend and stranger, in the wonder and beauty of our world, in the complexity of design in the creativity of artist and scientist.
Collect
Lord of the ages, our hope in times of trouble, and our consolation in grief; bring us a spirit of renewal, so that Your people may honour those who have given their lives in service to their country in conflict. May their service kindle in us the desire for peace and unity, which is Your hope for all people. This we pray through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen
Remembrance Day Prayer
Eternal God You forget nothing. All the days and events which have been lived were done so under Your ever-loving and all-seeing eye.
You have journeyed with us and with our forebears, and so while we must take the time to consciously remember, You do so without forgetting a moment that has been. We give thanks this day for Your faithfulness to Your people in every land and age, for Your presence with them in the dark days that they have faced, and we come to praise You that no matter what challenge lies before us, You have promised to be with us.
We acknowledge now that we have not walked the paths that lead to peace. We have hated our neighbours; we have kept hold of the prejudices and assumptions that belittle others and foment division.
In our thoughts, words and actions, we have been selfish and unfeeling to the needs of others. When we have seen injustice in action, we have been silent. Rather than being peacemakers, we have erred against one another and against You.
Help us O Lord, to be the people You have called us to be. Forgive us for our sin which we confess before You, trusting in Your mercy and compassion.
Eternal God Your mercy renews and refreshes us. We give You thanks and praise that we are a new people, entrusted to bring Your peace – a peace that passes all understanding – to those we encounter.
Bless us as we carry out this holy purpose and task. Send Your Holy Spirit to be upon us, as together we pray the prayer Jesus taught us, saying: Our Father…
Prayers for others
God of peace We come this day in solemn remembrance and prayerful witness to the courage, self-sacrifice and devotion to duty of those who have given of themselves in service to others.
We remember those who lost their lives and the grieving families and friends they left behind.
We remember also those who came home but who lost something of themselves on fields of battle. Those who lost limb, or reason, or sense of self.
We pray that Your comfort will be known by all who have seen the realities and dangers of war.
Ease the pain of those who grieve, being renewal to those whose health in body or mind has been diminished.
We seek Your blessing upon members of our Armed Forces and upon their families. Grant to them safety in the fulfilment of their duties, defend them as they face dangers of many kinds, and grant to them wisdom and courage as they work for peace and justice in our lifetimes.
We remember those who faced and continue to face significant challenge at home. For families torn apart by war, for those forced to leave the familiar and seek safety and refuge elsewhere. For those whose homes have been destroyed, or who cannot return due to dangers caused by conflict.
We pray for lands where neighbours have become enemies, where brothers have picked up weapons against one another and we seek Your reconciliation and peace. We give thanks for the times and places where we can see seeds of peace growing.
We pray for those who have never known war, and we plead that this will long continue. Grant a love of peace to our Young people, that they will make choices that lead to harmony.
We pray for our King, Charles, and for all of his ministers in Westminster and Holyrood. Grant to them wisdom in the fulfilment of their duties, that they will seek to make our world a place of safety and of prosperity for all. We pray particularly for our Member of Parliament, and for our Member of the Scottish Parliament.
Grant that Your Church will speak out with passion for the sake of those who are voiceless. Save us from silence or complacency and inspire us by Your Holy Spirit to prepare the way of the Lord today, and always.
In this time of silence, we bring to You those things that weigh heavily upon our hearts, trusting in the mercy and intercession of Your Holy Spirit.
Silence
We pray these things in the name of Christ, Amen
May the God of love fill your heart with peace and send you into the world to live it. And the blessing of God Almighty, our Creator, Redeemer, and Sustainer, be with you and those you love, this day and always. Amen
Relationship with God now, and in whatever lies ahead – death included – is the overriding theme of these prayers and reading. Each, in its own way, is a reminder that ours is not a God enshrined solely in Scripture or to be found inside the walls of an institution, but a living, moving, acting, listening, responding partner in our faith journey.
Call to Worship
Come, let’s praise God together! For God is great, and worthy of our praise! Let’s tell stories of God’s power and majesty, God’s mighty acts throughout history: for God is great, and worthy of our praise! Let’s remember the compassion God has shown toward us; God’s mercy and unfailing love, generation after generation: for God is great, and worthy of our praise! Let’s pass these stories to our children and grandchildren, so that they, too, may come to know and love our God. For God is great, and worthy of our praise!
Prayers
For ever and ever, Lord God. That is Your promise to us. A promise made before time began. A promise kept until beyond eternity. A promise that brings us here today. Because forever starts today, God. It rose with the first glimpse of dawn. It breathed in the stirring of the morning air. It sang in the waking chorus of creation. And it lives in all of us because You, in Your goodness, have made it so. This moment in time, God, is nothing in the grand scale of Your awesome plan. But it is our opportunity to recognise that every second, of every minute of every hour, of every day is everything, because of Your limitless love. We praise all that You are, Creator God. We stand amazed at all that You give and we celebrate Your faithfulness to us in our failure to appreciate the price of Your promises and the cost of Your creativity. When You created the world, Lord, You presented it to us as perfect. A place of growth and fruitfulness. but we misused it and left it broken and disjointed. When You breathed life into humanity You chose and cherished us. But we broke away from Your gentle arms and dismissed Your love. When You came to us, You wept with us, You suffered for us and You gave up Your all for us. But we forgot the vastness of Your sacrifice and took it for granted. We cannot fathom the scale and the nature Of Your forgiveness Yet still we seek it and need it. And still You offer it. For ever and ever, God. That is Your promise as proclaimed in Your Son, Jesus Christ. So here today, we proclaim ourselves a forgiven people, refreshed by Your grace and ready to serve You. We proclaim ourselves forever people. Committed to sharing in Your work. We proclaim ourselves Your people, now and always. Amen
Psalm 17
A Prayer of David. 1 Hear a just cause, O Lord; attend to my cry; give ear to my prayer from lips free of deceit. 2 From you let my vindication come; let your eyes see the right.
3 If you try my heart, if you visit me by night, if you test me, you will find no wickedness in me; my mouth does not transgress. 4 As for what others do, by the word of your lips I have avoided the ways of the violent. 5 My steps have held fast to your paths; my feet have not slipped.
6 I call upon you, for you will answer me, O God; incline your ear to me, hear my words. 7 Wondrously show your steadfast love, O saviour of those who seek refuge from their adversaries at your right hand.
8 Guard me as the apple of the eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings, 9 from the wicked who despoil me, my deadly enemies who surround me.
Prayers for others
Thank You, Lord God, for promises made and kept even when we have failed to keep our side of the bargain. Even when it feels the world teeters on the brink of disaster we know that You will never abandon Your people for You have shown us again and again that You are a faithful God. Hanging in there can be tough, though. We often feel like giving up. at those times when life seems too hard or too painful; when those around us suffer. Remind us of the words of prophets that have sustained Your people throughout generations and have come true again and again in Christ Jesus. Today, loving God, we pray for all those who are troubled in body, mind and spirit. May they know Your presence, and be reassured by Your words. We pray for our world, its leaders, its policy makers and its protectors. Help them to make wise decisions based on justice and tolerance. We pray for ourselves that we might see light in dark and difficult places and that we might be the light when others grope for meaning. And we pray for one another here, Lord. Those beside, behind and before us, that we might wait in trust and love together and that we might go from here to share Your promises with all we meet. In Jesus’ name. Amen
Closing Prayer
Go to celebrate the God who is our home forever. Go to follow Christ’s example in loving God, self, and neighbour. Go with the Holy Spirit to change the world with love. Go to seek God’s kingdom in all you say and do. AMEN
God Creator, Word, and Spirit, You call us together in our inadequate diversity to reflect Your perfect community in our world. Be among us today that we may express the Most Sacred in our ordinariness
Confession
Almighty God, our hearts are open to You, our desires known to You, and therein lurk the divisions and hostilities that scar our world, leaving millions of Your children wounded, grieving, hungry. Thank You that these are the very walls Christ came to break down. Thank You that You have already forgiven and made possible a new community in Your Spirit. Turn our thoughts from our own safety and security to the glory of Your name that it may be expressed in our living for the wholeness of society, beginning here in this church. Amen
Psalm 119:137-144
137 You are righteous, O Lord, and your judgements are right. 138 You have appointed your decrees in righteousness and in all faithfulness. 139 My zeal consumes me because my foes forget your words. 140 Your promise is well tried, and your servant loves it. 141 I am small and despised, yet I do not forget your precepts. 142 Your righteousness is an everlasting righteousness, and your law is the truth. 143 Trouble and anguish have come upon me, but your commandments are my delight. 144 Your decrees are righteous for ever; give me understanding that I may live.
Thanksgiving
Creator God, Thank You that you made space for us – for all created things – within the Divine Communion. Thank You for Your abundant generosity as we name our blessings … All things come from You, and of Your own we give You, as we commit again to live as channels of Your peace in a world marked by conflict. Amen
Prayer for others
Healing God, We pray for Your groaning world and strain to hear Your groaning with us: with those living with poverty war oppression sexual and gender-based violence hunger and the daily denial of their dignity as Your children. Tune our hearts to Your pain that we may recognise You even in the midst of great evil. We pray for those with power and influence:
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We pray for those seeking to serve those at the margins and in the most dangerous places such as World Vision, and other organisations. We pray for those closer at hand suffering from sickness bereavement loneliness that they would know You close at hand, and for those fearing the near end of life, that You would grant them a perfect end
From the Book of Common Prayer:
O God, you made us in your own image and redeemed us through Jesus your Son: Look with compassion on the whole human family; take away the arrogance and hatred which infect our hearts; break down the walls that separate us; unite us in bonds of love; and work through our struggle and confusion to accomplish your purposes on earth; that, in your good time, all nations and races may serve you in harmony around your heavenly throne; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen